After being dumped, you start to question a lot about yourself. What's wrong with me? Am I that bad to be around? Am I ugly, annoying, needy, boring, flat out undesirable? What is it?
The answers are NO and NOTHING. For whatever reason, this person wants nothing to do with you and lost interest in the relationship. They leave and move on like its nothing. They start a new life without you. Well, that's their problem.
We should not wonder what's wrong with us, but know that it's not us. The problem was we were dating the wrong person and that's not our fault.
It's hard to tell who is right for us and who is not. You can spend years with a person thinking the relationship won't end and wake up one day to it being over. We can't blame ourselves for the ending of the relationship just because it wasn't meant to be. We, instead, must accept that it's over and be open to the future.
The ending of a relationship is not the end of the world, although it feels that way at first. We can think and rethink about everything we may have done, but it doesn't change a damn thing. It's time to move on and make some realizations.
Just because you weren't right for one person, does not mean you're wrong for everyone. Life is all about the lessons, so would we be learning without making a few mistakes first?
Don't give up and get down because it's over. The future holds so many unforeseen events and people that we would miss out on if we give in to the questions jumbled in our head.
Someone may not be the right person for you, but there's a good chance someone out there is. Don't let that person effect your future, they are now just a thing in the past.
Chelsea Blake: My views on life and writing whatever my heart desires.