I just wanted to write to everyone who views my page and thank each of you for your support. I love writing and want to share everything with you!
Please share my page with anyone you think would relate to me and can benefit from it. I'm here to not only spill my feelings, but to also to connect with others who have the same feelings, or even different feelings.
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Continue to check up on my page. I should have some more up soon. Please also like a post if you truly like it. I'd like more thoughts and opinions from everyone!
Much love from Chelsea.
Whether you can tell already or not, I am HUGE on honesty and trust. I'm not talking one little white lie that comes up, I'm talking lie after lie, where you lose yourself in the lies and don't realize you're doing it anymore, or maybe you do.
I've been lied to a lot in my life, as I'm sure you have. I've lied before as I'm sure you have. None of us are innocent in this. Even though we all lie, there is a line. Some us choose to stay on honesty's side, the others, cross the line and never look back.
It's a traumatic thing to learn you've been lied to, your world crashes. You think back to the lie/s, how did you not see it? The answer is simple. Trust.
When you love someone, you trust them; trust that they'll never hurt you, trust that they love you enough to be truthful. You also give a certain amount of trust to others in your life, that doesn't hurt as much when broken. When someone you love lies to you, it changes everything.
To be lied to hurts. You find a way to move past it after the apology and promises to never lie again. You believe it. At first, you question some things to be lies, but you shake your head of your thoughts and move on. They wouldn't lie again, would they?
Soon enough, your world falls apart, you've been lied to again. You've been lied to time after time. You didn't see the lies because you wanted to trust someone that badly. They took advantage of you and did one of the most hurtful things they could do.
As I am dealing with this right now, and have been for a while, my advice is limited. When someone hurts you like that, trusting someone ever again is close to impossible. At this moment, I'm afraid to trust anyone and get shot down again.
My best advice for the moment; try not to let that one person ruin it for everyone. It'll take time, how much time, that I'm not sure of. Time is always the solution, right? In time, you hope things will get better and change.
As much as you let that one person ruin it for everyone, we must all try our hardest to let only the honest ones in. I tell everyone, I would rather you be honest no matter the situation than be lied to. Take that seriously, it's the most serious thing I have to say.
If you, the compulsive liar, are reading this; think of the people you hurt, the people you scar for life over this. Actually think the next time you go to lie. Change your mind and just be honest.
Let's all try to move on and trust again. In a world like this, we all need to have trust.
Dreams; they're the life-like stories that play in our heads while we sleep, like a free movie. Some dreams are wonderful; we're flying over the world or we're eating the world's largest pizza. Some are nightmares; we're terrified, running from something and trying to cry out a scream. The other dreams, well those are the ones that are the most terrifying; they're the ones we try to analyze.
You can search what your dreams mean all over the internet and you'll get some answers. You find out that dream you had where your teeth were falling out was caused by the current stress that has been overcoming your life. As for the dreams you can't research, you're gonna have to come up with your own answers.
Dreams are so crazy and interesting. Do we dream about certain things because in the back of our mind, we were thinking about it anyway? Are dreams our key to the future, guiding us to answers we will soon be looking for? Could it be possible that mean nothing to us?
I like to analyze my dreams, maybe a little more than I should. When I wake up from a dream, I'm all over it. Why did I dream it? Was I currently thinking about any of the dream? Is this dream out of no where?
I start my search for my answer. Maybe the answer is easy, right under my nose, and I figure out where it came from. Other times, I'm stumped. The answer is unclear and I dwell on what that dream could mean. Dreams always mean something right?
No, I don't think they always do, however, you know when they do. You wake up with so many unanswered questions you need answers. Here's the thing, sometime the answer isn't right there. Sometimes you got to do your waiting.
Weirdly enough, I have learned that if you wait long enough, your dream can be answered. Just when I think it is useless, a strange string of events occur that lead me to some kind of answer. Be prepared, the answer isn't always what you may want it to be.
So whether you're dreaming of a lady trying to force you to eat Ramen noodles, or your dreams are a bit more serious, figure out if they mean something. After all, your thoughts may create a pretty great story.
Dream on, my friends.
I feel as if I live by this saying more than anyone else. I am why they came up with this in the first place. You may be friends or in a relationship with someone based on similarities, but there are so many instances where I feel I have less in common with someone than in common.
I even found this pattern where a lot of my friends who don't know each other, have much more in common than I do with each of them. I mean yeah, I have things in common with them, I had to have become friends with them somehow in the first place. Altogether though, there are plenty of things we don't see eye to eye on.
You don't have to have everything in common with your significant other either. You read all these articles about how two people are so perfect for each other because they do everything together and have all the same opinions. Well in my opinion, that would get a little boring to me. Isn't it a little more exciting when two people are different?
I don't care what anyone says, you love who you love and you can't change that. You can try to, but good luck with that, I've never seen how it's possible. So if you love someone who doesn't think or feel the same as you, don't panic.
Maybe you and someone don't have much in common, maybe you feel like you are complete opposites and have nothing in common. Most likely that's not true. If you search and try hard enough, there is probably something/s that the two of you agree about or enjoy doing.
It is ok to do your own thing in relationships. Sometimes you're gonna be alone in doing something, enjoy it. While in a relationship though, you should try new things with your SO, as they should do the same for you. We have to do a lot of things in life we don't want to, well that goes for relationships as well. Suck it up, maybe you'll end up with a new hobby.
Having different opinions and hobbies can get in the way and even cause disagreements. The best thing to remember is that it shouldn't be that big of a deal, unless of course your opposite opinions deeply affect the relationship. If you can make it work, then don't worry about the differences.
Love who you wanna love. Be friends with people who make you laugh and care about you. Regardless of differences, we are on this Earth to make it a better place, right? Now I got too deep.
Put aside the fact that there are differences, if the love is mutual, that's enough in common as far as I can tell.
Sorry guys, but this one, is also for the girls! Something as common as clothes that we use to dress ourselves every day is way more complicated than throwing on whatever we grab out of the closet. For girls, we take it much more seriously than that.
I have a horrible addiction to shopping. Online shopping is my weakness; I find way too many deals on tops and accessories that can spice up my wardrobe! I'm always looking for the newest style to wear and share or to swipe left.
From tops and bottoms, to accessories and shoes, we take pride in our closet. What we wear is who we are and we do not want to be a mistake. So if you think your closet is lacking or needs a new piece, here is what you can absolutely not live without!
The flirty, flowy dress
A must have. You can't wear bottoms with leg holes all the time. A flowy dress can be worn for work (if appropriate), a day in the park with the family, or a night on the town with your girls. Very universal.
Black and/or white jeans
I love my black jeans and have never been opposed to white. Jeans are most commonly blue and it's time to spice it up. Colored jeans can work, but they are a little harder to match. Black and white will go with anything!
Scarves are a great accessory and you can't have just one. You need some for winter, some for summer, and some for always. As plain scarves match a lot, patterned scarf gives your outfit the pop it needed.
Big, flashy earrings
Pierced ears and earrings are in. The more the better. Make sure you have a nice pair of hoops or an elegant, dangly pair to show off your fun side.
A pair of booties
Boots are cute, booties are cuter. Add a pair of booties to your closet and maybe make them heels. They are the only heels I own and I'm in love.
A fun kimono
Nice and cool for the summer, wearable in the spring and fall. A flowery kimono is the perfect coverup.
High waisted shorts/pants
They've come back and they've been here to say for a while now. Pairing high waisted bottoms with a crop top slims your figure more than you'd think.
A comfortable flannel
Everyone owns a flannel. Do you? Flannels are perfect for fall and winter, and you don't look like a country singer in them anymore. Score!
Ok, so this is not necessarily to wear out in public, but no one's stopping you. Big sweats have always been a girls best friend. You don't even have to buy them, steal your boyfriends ;)
A giant sweater/cardigan
In style. Big sweaters are super comfortable and warm so its a win/win. Cardigans should also be a part of your closet for work and fun.
Knee high socks
Guys love them. They keep you warm and give you a sexy look. Pair with a skirt.
As you need several pairs of black, you also need one, unordinary pair. Whether it be flowered, aztec, or galaxy, there's a shirt out there that will match them. Hint: some stores pair those with a matching shirt near by.
You can thank me later.
Chelsea Blake: My views on life and writing whatever my heart desires.