Everyone says how they don't care what people think of them, and some people actually don't. I congratulate those people. It is hard to be those people who truly never care.
It's part of human nature for us to care at some point what certain people think of is. With jobs, we always want those who are hiring us to like us. I'm willing to be a little different for a job. It's not as easy not to care.
I for one, really want to be one of those people who don't give a f*ck what anyone out there thinks. I'd love to literally not care what anyone thinks of me. Sounds awesome! Although, I care time to time what others think of me.
This why I, and others, should not give a f*ck what anyone thinks.
1. You can go in public looking how you want.
Personally, I love putting myself together before leaving the house most days, but that's for me. If you never care what you look like, you shouldn't have to care what others will say about you.
2. You can say "f*ck you" to all.
You're not afraid of being judged for any reason. Someone thinks you're a bitch? F*ck you! They can say all they want but it doesn't even phase you.
3. Most opinions don't matter.
Aside from maybe getting a job or house you want, why do others opinions matter? They shouldn't. It'd be cool to not care about anyone's opinion, but I'm not there yet.
4. You won't have fake friends.
For the most part. If you are you, and don't pretend to be anyone else, then you'll know people are in your life because they want to be.
5. You'll feel better in general.
No one wants to pretend to be serious all the time or proper. Be you and you'll feel happier than you would otherwise.
6. You have less worries.
You usually worry and think about things a lot more whens someone has something negative to say about you and it matters. Not caring about what they say or think will give you more peace and less to dwell on.
Chelsea Blake: My views on life and writing whatever my heart desires.