First off, I just want to say that you should never change because someone else thinks you should or wants you to. It may be tempting to make someone happy but if you are not happy with the changes you'd be making, then don't even think about it.
So change. Change is good. Change happens all the time. People are changing all the time whether they know it or not. Change is a part of life that we do have to learn to deal with and accept it. We cannot change, change. Whoaaaa. What are we talking about again? To want to make changes in your life is a normal, healthy thing; unless of course the change is bad. Wanting to change for the better is a good thing. You should be looking to better yourself all the time. Learn to love yourself, but if you want to be a better you, you have to make those changes on your own. Making changes is never easy; you want to be more caring, less jealous, look different, become smarter, or be happier. Any changes you want to make to your life do not come easy, otherwise, you would already naturally be that way. We have to want the change and make it happen. From experience, changing those little things can take a long time, sometimes they don't even completely change. Sometimes, you must settle for what you are or how much you've changed thus far, because to change more would just not be you. Saying that, don't get way too caught up in making changes. Trying to change so many things about yourself will only drive you crazy, not to mention turn you into a completely different person. So don't be afraid to change for you, wanting to better yourself is a normal thing. The struggle to reach that "you" is a long road though. Be ready to travel down the long, bumpy path to become the person you ultimately want to be. During this adventure, don't forget, accepting who you are and loving it is all part of the journey to becoming who you want to be in life.
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