This is for all the genuinely nice people out there. The people who are nice to everyone, unless someone does something to hurt them. The ones who will still treat you nicely even if you're a shitty person toward them. If you are this person, welcome to the club. Where you just want everyone to get along but people keep shutting you down. Oh and we are also known as the door mats, please step all over us and wipe your feet on the way through. If you know exactly what I'm talking about, it's a rough world out there. You see and experience altercations every day but you're looking to get past them and just be happy. You'd rather be friends or at least civil with others because confrontation bothers you. Unfortunately the world we live in can't give you that. No matter how hard you try, there will be people who thrive on drama, or they just cant seem to find it in them to move on. We peace keepers are still wishing and trying for the world where people put aside first impressions or mistakes and get on with their lives. Sadly, we still wait. Good and bad, this is what we deal with in life. 1. We mess up and it haunts us forever. When we would love to just get past a mistake we made and live life, the others won't let us. They hold this against us and don't let us redeem ourselves. 2. We'll be known as door mats. We get walked all over. We put nice first because we don't want to have to be mean. Mean is left for after we stick up for ourselves and that doesn't go well. People take advantage of the that. 3. We're very polite. We don't really care if you're a dick, we still will please and thank you the shit out of a conversation. Our cheery tone will also be used, don't you worry about that. 4. People label us as friendly. We are usually called friendly and others often admire that we can be so nice to people who don't always deserve it. High five! 5. We seem to lose often. Since we are striving for everyone to get along, we find ourselves losing. We realize we can't fix all relationships between people so we feel like we have failed. 6. It's just who we are. Deep down, we know the ups and downs to who we are. Although it may suck sometimes, we're not changing and will forever keep trying.
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