When coming out of a long term relationship, there are so many mixed emotions. On the one hand, you're mourning the relationship, the ex love, and the future you were promised. On the other hand, you now have this whole new, fresh life awaiting you and your arrival to it.
As you should take time to mourn what was to be, you must also move past it and embrace what's ahead of you! Remember those parts of the ex-future you weren't really looking forward to, erase that! You were given the chance to start a new future. Even though you had a future set up and some bastard tore it away, don't worry about it. You have the power to set up an even better future without them. The breakup may still hurt, but here's what you have to look forward to in your new single life. You have complete freedom. No one to throw their opinions in your face and change your mind. Nothing holding you back. You are free. Do you, be you, and have a hell of a good time! You have a fresh start. No past. No baggage.It's time to meet new people and see new places. It's like you get a new life to test out and see where it takes you. Everyone loves a fresh start. You can do those single things you couldn't before. Talking to randoms in bars and staying out until whenever. Watching Netflix without worrying if the other person likes what you picked. It's really the simple things. You have more time for yourself and others. This is a time to find yourself again. Do even more things alone and find out who you are now without them. Spend more time with friends and meet new people. You can focus on a new future. Your future is gonna be different now but that can be a good thing. Make it better than it was previously planned. Show everyone you can make a better life for yourself, by yourself. You can make that future better. It's so nice to look back and see that you are improving your life while the other one gets left behind. Breathe a sigh of relief because you dodged a bullet on that one. You're life is getting better.
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