Life isn't always perfect. Altercations happen, and you don't end every conversation pleasantly. Sometimes, you don't even fix what's wrong and don't resolve things with people.
This could be the biggest regret in your life. Leaving on a bad note is never a good thing, but it's not always avoidable. You can try your best to avoid it, but that doesn't mean the other person will feel the same. Either way, you can't plan life. Fights happen, people get angry and upset, and leaving to get away and cool down is often a great solution. But what if, what if those words were the last you would have with that person? How often do you think of someone from your past and try and remember the last thing said? Do you want that to be how things end between you and them? It's not easy to contact someone and say you're sorry or something positive, so that your last communication wasn't screaming nasty things. Although, if you want to "end" things on a better note, contacting them is worth the risk. However, you can fix the future. You can make sure things don't end like they have before. Always tell your loved ones they are loved. We don't always say I love you when or as often as we should. We hang up the phone or leave a house with barely a goodbye. When there's a fight, you usually leave the conversation without any kind of goodbye, which is ok. But that brings me to.. Don't hold grudges. As you sometimes want to take all the time in the world to get over a fight, you should really try to fix it sooner than later. If you need a good amount of time to cool down, don't forget to let this person know that no matter where you two stand, you still care about them. Best decision you will make. Think, is the fight worth losing the person? Sometimes these fights end a relationship you have with a person. How important is this fight to you? If it's possible to be the bigger person and let it go, then do. Having people in your life is more important than losing someone over something silly. Although, some fights do tear people apart, so.. Make your words the last words. Not everyone is going to stay in your life forever. You're going to have to let some people go. Whether it's your idea, their idea, or mutual, don't leave it at a "fine" or "ok." Try saying something like you're sorry it had to be this way. That is easier said then done, but if you're willing, try it out. Don't live with regrets. As you don't want to live with the fact that things ended badly with some people, sometimes you have to accept it. You can't control everything in your life, but it's just important to know you tried your best. Also, don't regret if you don't know your last words with someone or feel they weren't perfect. The thing is to remember the good times and everything that made you smile. Relationships between people will always be up and down and have highs and lows. The best you can do is forgive, try to forget and show love when possible.
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